Welcome to the October
2006 Newsletter
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Schedule (Summer/Fall
2006)
WORKSHOPS AND EVENTS:
KIRTAN with Connie Habash
Saturday, October 21st, 4-5:30pm
at the Yoga and Movement Center, Walnut Creek
$15 suggested donation
(1/3 of proceeds benefit
Amma's charitable activities http://www.amma.org/ )
contact YMC to register: http://www.yoga-movement.com/
The Foundations of FORWARD BENDING
Saturday, November 4th, 2-4pm
at YiY in Mountain View
$35, or $30 if preregistered by 10/28
More information HERE
FOUNDATIONS SERIES in
FREMONT
Coming in 2007
at Mind-Body Zone:
Janurary 28th - Standing
Poses
March 25th - Forward
Bends
May 20th - Backbends
details coming soon
http://www.mindbody-zone.com
CLASS SCHEDULE:
TUESDAYS
9:30-11AM Iyengar & Vinyasa,
Beginning
YIY,
Mountain View
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This
Month's Article:
"I'm
Two Years Old"
by Connie Habash
My
daughter turned two this month: what a magical
age. I have often wondered how she sees the
world (see my story, "My First Holiday" in
December 2004 issue of the newsletter – Dec04.html)
and I begin to receive glimpses now, as her personality
and actions reveal her thoughts. Through
the eyes of Two, I see things anew. My little
guru continues to offer her teachings humbly and
sometimes precociously. This is a story rather
than an article - to give you a glimpse of the
simple joy and wisdom that I receive from her everyday.
My
Mommy says I’m “two years old”. Wow! She’s
very excited about it, and so am I. It
sounds important and fun. She holds
her fingers in a certain way when she says
it, and I try that, too. I wonder
what that’s about. It’s
fun, though. When I tell people “I’m
two years old”, Mommy gets a big smile
on her face. That makes me happy.
Everyday
is filled with interesting things to do and
see. When I wake up, I look out my window
and see the trees and the houses next door. Sometimes,
there is a woman running on the street or a
man and a dog. Or the garbage truck is
here to take our trash – it makes the
best noises! I want to stay and watch
things out the window, like the squirrels jumping
in the trees next door, but Mommy always wants
to “get going”. Why do we
have to be going? I like staying right
here. The bed is cozy and there’s
always something exciting out the window.
But
then she says “breakfast” and
that’s great, too. Yummy! She
says we have to go to preschool, but I thought
we were eating breakfast. I just want
strawberries, or even better, raspberries! I
love how they feel in my mouth, and they
taste the best! Preschool is fun,
but I’m having cereal right now. It’s
crunchy and I love the milk Mommy puts in
it. It tastes different when I drink
it from the cereal bowl than when I drink
it from my cup. “I’ll drink
careful, Mommy,” I tell her so that
she’ll take off the lid. I feel
like a big girl when I get to do that. It
makes me happy. Whatever I do with
Mommy makes me happy.
“Let’s
go!” she says. She sings a song
as she finishes putting on my clothes. I
like it when she lets me put my arms through
the sleeves by myself. I can’t
wait til I can pull it on over my head, too. But
I can pull it off by myself. That’s
fun. “Please, Meera, you have to
get dressed!” But I am getting
dressed, and undressed. Can we do it
some more?
We’re
getting in the car and I want a food bar. Mommy
says she doesn’t have one, and that I already
ate breakfast. But I want it! “I
need it!” I tell her. I shout, I
scream, because she might get me one then. She
needs to get me one. But she says she can’t
get me one and she’s driving the car. She
says I need to wait. She says that a lot. I’m
not sure what it means, but it seems to mean
that I don’t get it. I’m mad.
But sometimes I get it after a while.
I look
out the window and see the trucks, the cars,
colors, big trucks! A fire truck! Mommy
thanks me for being patient and waiting. She’s
smiling at me, but I’m not sure what she
means – what am I waiting for? I’m
looking at the fire truck – it’s
red, and it makes such loud sounds. Wiiiiirrrrrr...
and there are flashing lights, too. I guess
waiting is OK – there are so many things
to see, and to hear with my ears. She
plays music and I hear a piano. I love
the piano.
“We’re
here,” she says when we get to preschool. Chris
and Jessica and Kailie and Swati and Noah – I
can name all the kids at my preschool. We
play together. It’s really fun. No,
Mommy, don’t go!!! Mommy must stay
with me. I need my Mommy! Oh, we’re
in the dress up room – I want to put on
necklaces. They’re pretty. Mommy
says bye-bye. I used to worry that she
wouldn’t come back. But she always
does, just after lunch. Mommy always comes
back. So it’s OK – I can play
and have fun and Mommy comes back. It’s
OK at preschool.
Kailie
grabs the third necklace I’m reaching
for. “Mines!” I say. I want it. I
need it. It’s mine. I pull
and she pulls. We bump our heads. Ow! That
hurts! I’m crying and screaming. My
head hurts. I cry some more. And
then the teacher asks if I’m OK. Do
I need to cry some more? No, I’m
OK. It doesn’t hurt anymore. I
think I was upset about something, but I don’t
remember. I have necklaces, and Kailie
has necklaces. What can I play with now? We
play inside, we eat snack, we play outside
and back inside again.
Soon, I see Mommy
walk in the door. Yay!!! “Mommy’s
here!” I feel jumpy and giggly inside
and I run to her. Mommy’s mine. I
want to wrap my arms around her and hold on tight. She
smells good and her hair is soft. We’re
going home! We drive down the street and
count the bumps – “1, 2, 3, bump!” I
like doing this everyday after preschool. We
sing songs and it’s nappy time. We
get home, and Mommy carries me up the stairs. My
head feels very heavy. Mommy is warm and
cuddly. I go to sleep.
I wake up! Mommy
is here and smiling. I smile, too. I
swat her nose. “Gentle!” she
says, making a frown. That’s funny! I
touch her with my fingers soft on her cheek. She’s
happy again.
I want to
go outside. Walking down the street is fun. I want
to see who I can say hi to. People are happy. They
smile a lot and talk to me. I like that. I
want to talk to them, too. Sometimes there
are other kids on the street and we can play. I
like older kids, and babies, too. I like
grown ups a lot. There are lots of different
kinds of people. I don’t always understand
their words. But they are nice to me. I
like watching them walk, looking at the colors
of their clothes, the things they put in their
hair, the sound of their shoes on the street. Eyes
are so interesting! Some people look very
different than my Mommy and Daddy. I want
to see them all. I wave at the cars that
drive by, and the people in them smile and wave
back! It’s so fun.
I see flowers. Pink
and white and red. “Was dat?” I
ask Mommy. “You know what those are – they’re
flowers”. “Flowers,” I
say. Yes, I know that. But it’s
fun to ask. What will she say? Flowers
have different colors, they move in the wind, some
have pokies, they feel smooth, some break when
I touch them. They’re pretty and they
make me feel good. They have smells – some
smell so good! How can one word be all
that?
Mommy says it’s
time to go home to have dinner. But I don’t
want to! I love being outside, feeling the
wind blowing, looking at the leaves on the ground,
and throwing rocks. I don’t want to
stop! But I am also hungry. So we walk
back to my house. “We’re home!” she
says.
Sometimes
I have to wait for Mommy to make dinner. Sometimes
I’m very hungry and it’s very hard
to wait. But today, I have a new book, and
there’s a squirrel outside, and I walk on
my tippytoes around the kitchen while pushing my
baby stroller. “Thank you for being
patient while Mommy makes dinner,” she says
to me. If this is being patient, it’s
OK. I like walking on my tippytoes. I
like playing with my baby doll. And the squirrels
are chasing each other around the tree trunk.
Daddy’s home!!! Oh
wow, here he is, walking in the door. Daddy
picks me up and turns me upside down. I laugh
and laugh and laugh. I’m Daddy’s
special girl. I love his hugs and kisses,
and feeling his scratchy beard. I like when
he takes his glasses off and I look at his eyes – they
are blue and different from Mommy’s.
Dinner time. I
like eating food. I like throwing food, too. Mommy
makes a funny face when I do it. She doesn’t
like that. But I like watching what happens
when I dump my dinner on the floor. “Meera,
that’s a messy-mess!” she says. Mommy
doesn’t like messy-messes. She doesn’t
like cleaning them up. But I don’t
know why – throwing the food is fun, and
there’s always something to clean up anyway,
so why can’t we have fun doing that? She
hands me a towel and I help her wipe up the floor. I’m
a good helper. Cleaning up is fun. It
makes Mommy smile. And now there are my toys
to play with.
Bathy time is
after dinner – yay! I like pouring
with my stacking cups. I can pour the water
over my legs, and even the sides of the tub. Oh,
Mommy gets upset when I do that. I can pour
the water into another cup. Mommy pours the
water over my head! It feels good. How
does water do that? It feels slippery and
warm all around me. I can go splishy-splashy
and watch the water dance and make noises. Water
is my favorite, I think. It’s my favorite
toy.
Time to go
seepy-seep. I’m in my big bed now. Because
I’m two, and I’m a big girl, Mommy
says. I like the big bed. I close my
eyes. My body feels warm and cozy, and I
hear Mommy’s breath and feel her hair in
my fingers. I love my binky. It feels good
to be in bed. Nighty-night.
© 2006 Constance
L. Habash
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KIRTAN COMES
TO WALNUT CREEK!
Want
to connect to the Divine through your voice?
Love chanting and singing? Intrigued by the Sanskrit
language? Kirtan is for you! We'll spend an afternoon
enjoying bhajans (devotional songs) and chanting
mantra, opening our hearts and uplifting our
spirits with sacred sound.
SATURDAY, OCTOBER
21st, 4-5:30pm at the Yoga and Movement Center
in Walnut Creek. $15 suggested donation, 1/3
of proceeds benefit the charitable activities
of Amma http://www.amma.org/
For more information,
click HERE
The Foundations
of FORWARD BENDING on
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 4TH at YiY in Mountain View.
The Foundations series continues with specific
focus on standing and seated forward bends. These
poses open the hamstrings and soothe the nervous
system, yet can be quite challenging, especially
for beginners. Learn detailed alignment, basic
anatomy, benefits of the poses, and simple yoga
philsophy to deepen your yoga practice. More
information HERE
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IN COUNSELING & PSYCHOTHERAPY
PRACTICE. Are you ready to delve deeper
into yourself? Want to resolve issues or
situations in your life? Looking to create
a relationship or transform the one you're in? I
now have 1-2 spaces open in my counseling practice
for individuals or couples who want to integrate
their personal growth with their spiritual path. Call
or email me for available appointments (I
have weekly and bi-weekly spaces available). connie@awakeningself.com or (650)
996-2649.
PRENATAL
CLASS at YiY in Mountain
View! Wednesdays, 11am-12:15pm (note slight time
adjustment). Connect with your baby and yourself,
build strength and develop flexibility that will
prepare you for birth and motherhood in a community
of other expectant mothers.
More information HERE
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TRAINING STARTING FEB 2007! Connie will be teaching portions
of the nine-month Y.E.S. Teacher Training
with Joyce Anue. Applications are now being
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Yoga
of the Seasons: |
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Taming
the Wind
The cool air brushes past my
cheek and swirls down the street, catching dry leaves lying innocently
in the way. A counter-breeze meets it and suddenly leaves and dust
spiral into a dance, whirling chaotically across the road. Blowing
through leaves remaining on the trees, the wind has a distinctly
different sound: rattling, shaking, the rough dryness is harsh compared
to the soft fullness of summer foliage. The brisk winds of
Autumn have arrived.
According to Ayurveda (as well
as common sense), wind is by nature drying, and at this time of year,
it also brings a chill. We see the effects of the wind in ourselves
- dry skin, coldness, mental restlessness, and anxiety or fearfulness. We
may find our minds race during the Fall due to this aggitating energy
of air element, especially when we wake in the middle of the night around
3 or 4am, struggling for hours to get back to sleep. Wind is also
changeable, fluctuating. Our schedules may be different from week
to week, as we shift from the flurry of summer activities to the Fall
to-do list. We haven't slowed down yet - we've just replaced getting
outdoors with getting things done. Our minds may be racing, from
what's the next task to worries and deadlines.
What we really need in the
Autumn is to tame this energy of the wind. We need a feeling of
being grounded, stable, quiet, and still, especially in our minds. Our
bodies also need more moisture and warmth. Knowing some things
you can do to bring balance to this cold, chaotic, and chilly energy
will make the transition through Fall much more comfortable.
On the physical level, the drying
needs to be counteracted by oilation. Using ghee, or clarified
butter, in cooking as well as other warming oils, such as sesame oil,
can be helpful and soothing. Taking a supplementaion of essential
fatty acids (Omega 3, 6, and 9) will also help moisturize and replenish
from the inside out. Additionally, you can slather that sesame
oil on the skin in the shower to nourish the skin from the outside. As
always, Ayurveda recommends warming, moist foods at this time of year,
such as soups and stews, to calm the wind-dominated Vata energy which
is surging right now. Drinking hot water with chopped fresh ginger
root is great for an instant calming and warming effect.
Our yoga practice at this
time should stabilize, ground, and warm us from
the inside. Starting with Agni Sara, a practice
of pumping the navel, will awaken the internal "fire",
keeping digestive organs healthy and preventing the
occasional bout of constipation that can show up
as the weather cools off. All standing poses (such
as the 3 Warrior poses, Triangle pose, Tree poses,
Mountain Pose, etc.) are recommended,
as they create firmness and strength, stabilize the
body, and steadily warm us through. Backbends
(especially those on the belly) to build heat,
Inversions for overall balancing, and Forward
bends (particularly Pascimottanasana) to
ground, calm, and soothe body and mind, round out
a solid Autumn yoga practice. Let the pace
be slow and steady, with long holds, to counteract
the whirlwinds of Autumn spinning through us.
Quieting the mind can be a tough
task in any season, but initiating a practice that
calms the mental energy during the Fall helps get
us through the entire cold season. Simple breathwork
can begin the process. You can begin with 3-part
breath (Dirgha pranayama), inhaling from the belly,
diaphragm, and then upper chest in sequence and exhaling
in reverse. Start with a moderate pace, then
attempt to slow and lengthen the breath. Ujjayi
pranayama, which involves making a soft sound like
the wind blowing through the trees, can then be engaged. About
10 slow breaths with equal inhalations and exhalations
will go far towards calming down an overactive brain.
A meditation practice
will naturally follow this simple breathwork. If
you don't already have your own meditation practice,
here is a simple one that particularly calms an aggitated
mind. Sit in a comfortable position with the
spine tall, either on a cushion or on a chair. As
you inhale, say the word "deep" mentally to yourself,
and as you exhale, say the word "peace". Do
this for at least 3 minutes, up to 20. Focus
on feeling the quality of deep peace within you. This
can be a soothing break at work or a relaxing
reprieve from your wild and crazy kids after they've
gone to bed. Doing this as a nighttime routine
will aid in quieting the mind, drifting off to sleep
more easily.
As you begin to bundle
up against the cold, brisk breeze of Autumn,
imagine the warm, soothing fire within. You
have the tools to tame the inner and outer winds
and allow yourself to enjoy the wonder of Autumn's
transformation.
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Spiritual
Quotes
"How poor are they
that have not patience. What
would did ever heal but by degrees?"
~
William Shakespeare
"The love of one's
country is a splendid thing. But
why should love stop at the border?"
~
Pablo Casals
"Good morning. This is God. I will
be handling all of your problems today. I
will not need your help, so have a miraculous
day."
~ Wayne Dyer, from The Power
of Intention
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