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Welcome to the October 2006 Newsletter


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Schedule  (Summer/Fall 2006)

WORKSHOPS AND EVENTS:

KIRTAN with Connie Habash
Saturday, October 21st, 4-5:30pm
at the Yoga and Movement Center, Walnut Creek
$15 suggested donation
(1/3 of proceeds benefit Amma's charitable activities http://www.amma.org/ )
contact YMC to register: http://www.yoga-movement.com/

The Foundations of FORWARD BENDING
Saturday, November 4th, 2-4pm at YiY in Mountain View
$35, or $30 if preregistered by 10/28
More information HERE

FOUNDATIONS SERIES in FREMONT
Coming in 2007 at Mind-Body Zone:
   Janurary 28th - Standing Poses
   March 25th -     Forward Bends
   May 20th -        Backbends 
details coming soon 
http://www.mindbody-zone.com

CLASS SCHEDULE:

   
TUESDAYS
    9:30-11AM              Iyengar & Vinyasa, Beginning
                                       YIY, Mountain View

   WEDNESDAYS          
   11AM-12:15PM                     Prenatal
                                       YIY, Mountain View

    FRIDAYS
    9:30-11AM              Iyengar & Vinyasa, All Levels 
                                       YIY, Mountain View


        http://www.devi-yoga.com
        http://www.yogaisyouth.com

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This Month's Article: 
"I'm Two Years Old"
by Connie Habash

     My daughter turned two this month: what a magical age.  I have often wondered how she sees the world (see my story, "My First Holiday" in December 2004  issue of the newsletter – Dec04.html) and I begin to receive glimpses now, as her personality and actions reveal her thoughts.  Through the eyes of Two, I see things anew.  My little guru continues to offer her teachings humbly and sometimes precociously.  This is a story rather than an article - to give you a glimpse of the simple joy and wisdom that I receive from her everyday.

     My Mommy says I’m “two years old”.  Wow!  She’s very excited about it, and so am I.  It sounds important and fun.  She holds her fingers in a certain way when she says it, and I try that, too.  I wonder what that’s about.  It’s fun, though.  When I tell people “I’m two years old”, Mommy gets a big smile on her face.  That makes me happy.

     Everyday is filled with interesting things to do and see.  When I wake up, I look out my window and see the trees and the houses next door.  Sometimes, there is a woman running on the street or a man and a dog.  Or the garbage truck is here to take our trash – it makes the best noises!  I want to stay and watch things out the window, like the squirrels jumping in the trees next door, but Mommy always wants to “get going”.  Why do we have to be going?  I like staying right here.  The bed is cozy and there’s always something exciting out the window.

    But then she says “breakfast” and that’s great, too.  Yummy!  She says we have to go to preschool, but I thought we were eating breakfast.  I just want strawberries, or even better, raspberries!  I love how they feel in my mouth, and they taste the best!  Preschool is fun, but I’m having cereal right now.  It’s crunchy and I love the milk Mommy puts in it.  It tastes different when I drink it from the cereal bowl than when I drink it from my cup.  “I’ll drink careful, Mommy,” I tell her so that she’ll take off the lid.  I feel like a big girl when I get to do that.  It makes me happy.  Whatever I do with Mommy makes me happy.

    “Let’s go!” she says.  She sings a song as she finishes putting on my clothes.  I like it when she lets me put my arms through the sleeves by myself.  I can’t wait til I can pull it on over my head, too.  But I can pull it off by myself.  That’s fun.  “Please, Meera, you have to get dressed!”  But I am getting dressed, and undressed.  Can we do it some more?

    We’re getting in the car and I want a food bar.  Mommy says she doesn’t have one, and that I already ate breakfast.  But I want it!  “I need it!” I tell her.  I shout, I scream, because she might get me one then.  She needs to get me one.  But she says she can’t get me one and she’s driving the car.  She says I need to wait.  She says that a lot.  I’m not sure what it means, but it seems to mean that I don’t get it.  I’m mad. But sometimes I get it after a while.

    I look out the window and see the trucks, the cars, colors, big trucks!  A fire truck!  Mommy thanks me for being patient and waiting.   She’s smiling at me, but I’m not sure what she means – what am I waiting for?  I’m looking at the fire truck – it’s red, and it makes such loud sounds.  Wiiiiirrrrrr... and there are flashing lights, too.  I guess waiting is OK – there are so many things to see,  and to hear with my ears.  She plays music and I hear a piano.  I love the piano.

    “We’re here,” she says when we get to preschool.  Chris and Jessica and Kailie and Swati and Noah – I can name all the kids at my preschool.  We play together.  It’s really fun.  No, Mommy, don’t go!!!  Mommy must stay with me.  I need my Mommy!  Oh, we’re in the dress up room – I want to put on necklaces.  They’re pretty.  Mommy says bye-bye.  I used to worry that she wouldn’t come back.  But she always does, just after lunch.  Mommy always comes back.  So it’s OK – I can play and have fun and Mommy comes back.  It’s OK at preschool.

     Kailie grabs the third necklace I’m reaching for. “Mines!” I say. I want it.  I need it.  It’s mine.  I pull and she pulls.  We bump our heads.  Ow!  That hurts!  I’m crying and screaming.  My head hurts.  I cry some more.  And then the teacher asks if I’m OK.  Do I need to cry some more?  No, I’m OK.  It doesn’t hurt anymore.  I think I was upset about something, but I don’t remember.  I have necklaces, and Kailie has necklaces. What can I play with now?  We play inside, we eat snack, we play outside and back inside again.

     Soon, I see Mommy walk in the door.  Yay!!!  “Mommy’s here!”  I feel jumpy and giggly inside and I run to her.  Mommy’s mine.  I want to wrap my arms around her and hold on tight.  She smells good and her hair is soft.  We’re going home!  We drive down the street and count the bumps – “1, 2, 3, bump!”  I like doing this everyday after preschool.  We sing songs and it’s nappy time.  We get home, and Mommy carries me up the stairs.  My head feels very heavy.  Mommy is warm and cuddly.  I go to sleep.

     I wake up!  Mommy is here and smiling.  I smile, too.  I swat her nose.  “Gentle!” she says, making a frown.  That’s funny!  I touch her with my fingers soft on her cheek.  She’s happy again.

     I want to go outside. Walking down the street is fun. I want to see who I can say hi to.  People are happy.  They smile a lot and talk to me.  I like that.  I want to talk to them, too.  Sometimes there are other kids on the street and we can play.  I like older kids, and babies, too.  I like grown ups a lot.  There are lots of different kinds of people.  I don’t always understand their words.  But they are nice to me.  I like watching them walk, looking at the colors of their clothes, the things they put in their hair, the sound of their shoes on the street.  Eyes are so interesting!  Some people look very different than my Mommy and Daddy.  I want to see them all.  I wave at the cars that drive by, and the people in them smile and wave back!  It’s so fun.

     I see flowers.  Pink and white and red.  “Was dat?” I ask Mommy.  “You know what those are – they’re flowers”.  “Flowers,” I say.  Yes, I know that.  But it’s fun to ask.  What will she say?  Flowers have different colors, they move in the wind, some have pokies, they feel smooth, some break when I touch them.  They’re pretty and they make me feel good. They have smells – some smell so good!  How can one word be all that? 

     Mommy says it’s time to go home to have dinner.  But I don’t want to!  I love being outside, feeling the wind blowing, looking at the leaves on the ground, and throwing rocks.  I don’t want to stop!  But I am also hungry.  So we walk back to my house.  “We’re home!” she says. 

     Sometimes I have to wait for Mommy to make dinner.  Sometimes I’m very hungry and it’s very hard to wait.  But today, I have a new book, and there’s a squirrel outside, and I walk on my tippytoes around the kitchen while pushing my baby stroller.  “Thank you for being patient while Mommy makes dinner,” she says to me.  If this is being patient, it’s OK.  I like walking on my tippytoes.  I like playing with my baby doll.  And the squirrels are chasing each other around the tree trunk.

     Daddy’s home!!!  Oh wow, here he is, walking in the door.  Daddy picks me up and turns me upside down.  I laugh and laugh and laugh.  I’m Daddy’s special girl.  I love his hugs and kisses, and feeling his scratchy beard.  I like when he takes his glasses off and I look at his eyes – they are blue and different from Mommy’s. 

     Dinner time.  I like eating food.  I like throwing food, too.  Mommy makes a funny face when I do it.  She doesn’t like that.  But I like watching what happens when I dump my dinner on the floor.  “Meera, that’s a messy-mess!” she says.  Mommy doesn’t like messy-messes.  She doesn’t like cleaning them up.  But I don’t know why – throwing the food is fun, and there’s always something to clean up anyway, so why can’t we have fun doing that?  She hands me a towel and I help her wipe up the floor.  I’m a good helper.  Cleaning up is fun.  It makes Mommy smile.  And now there are my toys to play with.

     Bathy time is after dinner – yay!  I like pouring with my stacking cups.  I can pour the water over my legs, and even the sides of the tub.  Oh, Mommy gets upset when I do that.  I can pour the water into another cup.  Mommy pours the water over my head!  It feels good.  How does water do that?  It feels slippery and warm all around me.  I can go splishy-splashy and watch the water dance and make noises.  Water is my favorite, I think.  It’s my favorite toy.

     Time to go seepy-seep.  I’m in my big bed now.  Because I’m two, and I’m a big girl, Mommy says.  I like the big bed.  I close my eyes.  My body feels warm and cozy, and I hear Mommy’s breath and feel her hair in my fingers.  I love my binky. It feels good to be in bed. Nighty-night.

© 2006 Constance L. Habash

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KIRTAN COMES TO WALNUT CREEK!
Want to connect to the Divine through your voice? Love chanting and singing? Intrigued by the Sanskrit language? Kirtan is for you! We'll spend an afternoon enjoying bhajans (devotional songs) and chanting mantra, opening our hearts and uplifting our spirits with sacred sound.
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 21st, 4-5:30pm at the Yoga and Movement Center in Walnut Creek. $15 suggested donation, 1/3 of proceeds benefit the charitable activities of Amma http://www.amma.org/
For more information, click HERE

The Foundations of FORWARD BENDING on SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 4TH at YiY in Mountain View. The Foundations series continues with specific focus on standing and seated forward bends. These poses open the hamstrings and soothe the nervous system, yet can be quite challenging, especially for beginners. Learn detailed alignment, basic anatomy, benefits of the poses, and simple yoga philsophy to deepen your yoga practice. More information HERE

OPENINGS IN COUNSELING & PSYCHOTHERAPY PRACTICE.  Are you ready to delve deeper into yourself?  Want to resolve issues or situations in your life?  Looking to create a relationship or transform the one you're in?  I now have 1-2 spaces open in my counseling practice for individuals or couples who want to integrate their personal growth with their spiritual path.  Call or email me for available appointments (I have weekly and bi-weekly spaces available).  connie@awakeningself.com or (650) 996-2649.

PRENATAL CLASS at YiY in Mountain View! Wednesdays, 11am-12:15pm (note slight time adjustment). Connect with your baby and yourself, build strength and develop flexibility that will prepare you for birth and motherhood in a community of other expectant mothers.
More information HERE  

YOGA TEACHER TRAINING STARTING FEB 2007!  Connie will be teaching portions of the nine-month Y.E.S. Teacher Training with Joyce Anue.  Applications are now being received.  For more information, see Joyce's website: http://www.joyceanue.com

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Yoga of the Seasons:

Taming the Wind   

     The cool air brushes past my cheek and swirls down the street, catching dry leaves lying innocently in the way.  A counter-breeze meets it and suddenly leaves and dust spiral into a dance, whirling chaotically across the road.  Blowing through leaves remaining on the trees, the wind has a distinctly different sound: rattling, shaking, the rough dryness is harsh compared to the soft fullness of summer foliage.  The brisk winds of Autumn have arrived.

    According to Ayurveda (as well as common sense), wind is by nature drying, and at this time of year, it also brings a chill.  We see the effects of the wind in ourselves - dry skin, coldness, mental restlessness, and anxiety or fearfulness.  We may find our minds race during the Fall due to this aggitating energy of air element, especially when we wake in the middle of the night around 3 or 4am, struggling for hours to get back to sleep.  Wind is also changeable, fluctuating.  Our schedules may be different from week to week, as we shift from the flurry of summer activities to the Fall to-do list.  We haven't slowed down yet - we've just replaced getting outdoors with getting things done.  Our minds may be racing, from what's the next task to worries and deadlines.

     What we really need in the Autumn is to tame this energy of the wind.  We need a feeling of being grounded, stable, quiet, and still, especially in our minds.  Our bodies also need more moisture and warmth.  Knowing some things you can do to bring balance to this cold, chaotic, and chilly energy will make the transition through Fall much more comfortable.

   On the physical level, the drying needs to be counteracted by oilation.  Using ghee, or clarified butter, in cooking as well as other warming oils, such as sesame oil, can be helpful and soothing.  Taking a supplementaion of essential fatty acids (Omega 3, 6, and 9) will also help moisturize and replenish from the inside out.  Additionally, you can slather that sesame oil on the skin in the shower to nourish the skin from the outside.  As always, Ayurveda recommends warming, moist foods at this time of year, such as soups and stews, to calm the wind-dominated Vata energy which is surging right now.  Drinking hot water with chopped fresh ginger root is great for an instant calming and warming effect.

    Our yoga practice at this time should stabilize, ground, and warm us from the inside.  Starting with Agni Sara, a practice of pumping the navel, will awaken the internal "fire", keeping digestive organs healthy and preventing the occasional bout of constipation that can show up as the weather cools off. All standing poses (such as the 3 Warrior poses, Triangle pose, Tree poses, Mountain Pose, etc.)  are recommended, as they create firmness and strength, stabilize the body, and steadily warm us through.  Backbends (especially those on the belly) to build heat, Inversions for overall balancing, and Forward bends (particularly Pascimottanasana) to ground, calm, and soothe body and mind, round out a solid Autumn yoga practice.  Let the pace be slow and steady, with long holds, to counteract the whirlwinds of Autumn spinning through us.

   Quieting the mind can be a tough task in any season, but initiating a practice that calms the mental energy during the Fall helps get us through the entire cold season.  Simple breathwork can begin the process.  You can begin with 3-part breath (Dirgha pranayama), inhaling from the belly, diaphragm, and then upper chest in sequence and exhaling in reverse.  Start with a moderate pace, then attempt to slow and lengthen the breath.  Ujjayi pranayama, which involves making a soft sound like the wind blowing through the trees, can then be engaged.  About 10 slow breaths with equal inhalations and exhalations will go far towards calming down an overactive brain.

     A meditation practice will naturally follow this simple breathwork.  If you don't already have your own meditation practice, here is a simple one that particularly calms an aggitated mind.  Sit in a comfortable position with the spine tall, either on a cushion or on a chair.  As you inhale, say the word "deep" mentally to yourself, and as you exhale, say the word "peace".  Do this for at least 3 minutes, up to 20.  Focus on feeling the quality of deep peace within you.  This can be a soothing break at work or a relaxing reprieve from your wild and crazy kids after they've gone to bed.  Doing this as a nighttime routine will aid in quieting the mind, drifting off to sleep more easily.

     As you begin to bundle up against the cold, brisk breeze of Autumn, imagine the warm, soothing fire within.  You have the tools to tame the inner and outer winds and allow yourself to enjoy the wonder of Autumn's transformation.

Copyright © 2001, 2006 by Constance L. Habash

Spiritual Quotes

"How poor are they that have not patience.  What would did ever heal but by degrees?"
 ~ William Shakespeare

"The love of one's country is a splendid thing.   But why should love stop at the border?"  
 ~ Pablo Casals

"Good morning.  This is God.  I will be handling all of your problems today.  I will not need your help, so have a miraculous day."  
~ Wayne Dyer, from The Power of Intention